let the others give some advise

"When things does not seem right, its time to give it up. There is no point to keep hugging on it, praying and hoping it will turn for the good. It will be even worst off to even think that the situations will be getting better after putting in some "brilliant" ideas. Do not get sink in too deep and never get out. Listen to the others. Give others and yourself a chance to see if it is correct in the first place. There has to be a point where everyone will agree upon. "